The vacation invitations are pouring in. There’s the Nutcracker. That white-elephant get together with the neighbors. The ugly sweater factor. The potluck to your child’s basketball staff. Breakfast with Santa. Shoot, did you overlook Aunt Mildred’s gingerbread-house-making workshop?

Hey: earlier than you go any additional, get out your calendar proper now and add some white area. Days the place you’re scheduled to go completely nowhere, do completely nothing, and see completely nobody. It’s simple to get tremendous formidable early within the month—it’s the vacations, for goodness sakes, cue the Mariah Carey track and play Elf on repeat!—but it surely’s additionally simple to get burned out, overwhelmed, and resentful. Too many actions makes children anxious (and cranky and whiny), too. It’s necessary to bodily add the area, in any other case you’ll see a peek of free time and say, “After all, I could make it to your reindeer petting zoo! How can I not?”

How do you resolve what to skip? Consider the large stuff you worth: maybe household, pals (like actual pals—you don’t want a vacation reunion with each single particular person you knew in highschool), or your religion. Then select the occasions that assist these values. And yeah, if there’s an Elf screening, undoubtedly go.


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