Welcome again, white individuals! (I guess you’ve by no means heard anybody say that earlier than.) After studying concerning the visitor listing for Black Thanksgiving, you is likely to be questioning why Black Thanksgiving is so totally different from wypipo Thanksgiving.

The Caucasian’s Information to Black Thanksgiving, Half 1: The Visitor Checklist

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As you be taught extra about Thanksgiving, lots of you’ll say: “That is nearly precisely like white Thanksgiving, however not fairly.”

It’s all the time the “not fairly” half that’s necessary. I’m simply as good-looking as Idris Elba, however not fairly. Donald Trump’s Thousand Island-colored pores and skin bronzer appears to be like very pure, however not fairly. America has all the time handled black individuals the identical as its Caucasian residents, however not fairly.

See the distinction?

Nowhere is that delicate distinction extra obvious than within the meals at Black Thanksgiving. The meals at Black Thanksgiving is the syrupy-sweet essence of blackness, deep fried after which coated with aluminum foil. The menu at Black Thanksgiving intently resembles another Thanksgiving menu …

However not fairly.

The Turkey

Not like white Thanksgivings, the turkey is without doubt one of the least necessary elements of Black Thanksgiving. It’s a obligatory ingredient as a result of the turkey is what separates a Thanksgiving meal from a household reunion, a cookout or a post-funeral dinner. In truth, Black Thanksgiving ain’t nothing however an interior-based cookout with a turkey.

The turkey is the one a part of the dinner during which uncles take part. Many uncles have begun deep frying turkeys currently (as a result of what doesn’t style good when it’s deep fried?) however uncles are sometimes chargeable for carving the turkey. This isn’t patriarchal. That is just because each old-ass black man all the time carries a knife anyway.

This is likely to be totally different in different cultures’ properties relying on the instrument of alternative. As an illustration, Cardi B’s household may use a field cutter to slice the turkey. White individuals may use racism to divide the turkey into elements. I feel I learn in a Rolling Stone interview that some individuals even tried to chop their turkey with Taylor Swift lyrics eventually yr’s Thanksgiving, however they had been too boring.


I gained’t even go too deep on this matter as a result of I may speak for hours about this, plus VerySmartBrothas already coated the topic higher than I ever may.

It’s Dressing. Save a Life; Lower It Out With the Stuffing Shit

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White individuals eat stuffing. Black individuals eat dressing.

There’s nothing in any respect flawed with stuffing, however I personally imagine that the continued ingestion of stuffing can result in behavioral modifications like the lack to acknowledge the downbeat or the need to masturbate publicly. I’m simply saying, I’ve eaten dressing all my life and have by no means as soon as felt the need to masturbate in a room with a couple of particular person. Harvey Weinstein, Louis C.Okay. and Mark Halperin ate stuffing all their lives and look what occurred.

That’s simply science.


Macaroni is the Beyoncé of the Thanksgiving dishes; it’s the headliner. I do know that some white individuals base their Thanksgiving dinners round mashed potatoes, which is the second whitest-thing I’ve ever heard (Louis C.Okay.’s well mannered request is presently atop the charts). Mashed potatoes require no ability in any respect. The complete recipe is actually within the title. You simply mash potatoes. That’s it.

Conversely, macaroni is a giant fucking deal. The one who makes the macaroni at Black Thanksgiving requires a majority vote by the aunts, two-thirds of the uncles and nonetheless should undergo a cousin affirmation listening to. In truth, my aunt Phyllis, our household’s designated maker of dressing and macaroni, suffers from Lou Gehrig’s illness, and now we have already chosen our cousin Tasha to function an apprentice below her tutelage as Aunt Phyllis’ quick successor.

At some blended Black Thanksgivings, there could also be a couple of macaroni maker. In these instances, you’ll usually hear members of the family inquire as to who made the macaroni. The simplest method to establish a superior crafter of macaroni and cheese (see what I did there) is to pay attention when individuals ask the query as a result of there isn’t a tact or subtlety in macaroni-related areas at Black Thanksgiving. Folks will ask loudly: “Which one in all these macaronis is Aunt Phyllis’?”


Like dressing, there’s a divide surrounding cornbread. Some individuals favor candy cornbread, whereas others favor white individuals’s cornbread.

Fried Rooster

Fried Rooster should be served in any respect Black Thanksgivings. It should be seasoned with Lawry’s seasoned salt and cooked on-site. It should be fried in grease (not cooking oil—“grease.” Cooking oil is for cooking. Grease is for frying) after which laid on a mattress of paper towels. Right here is the important thing to Black Thanksgiving fried hen:

The grease can’t be new.

It should be pre-used from the final time you made fried hen. I do know you’re pondering: “Properly, sooner or later the grease needs to be new!”

Hear, white individuals, I don’t have the reply to which got here first, the hen or the grease. All I do know is my grandmother’s grandmother handed down her hen grease via six generations and we’re nonetheless frying hen within the grease of our ancestors.

Candy-Potato-Based mostly Dishes

Black Thanksgiving is a really yam-based vacation. I’m a candied yam particular person myself, however some black households will permit candy potato casserole.

The candy potato pie is second solely to macaroni in significance of “who made this.” Each black household has a chosen candy potato pie particular person, and it’s not often the macaroni maker. A twin macaroni and sweet-potato-pie-making aunt is a black unicorn. Many individuals do each issues nicely, however nearly nobody is one of the best at each issues.

I don’t advocate twin macaroni and pie-making as a result of it is extremely harmful. Any freak accident to a twin mac/pie-maker may damage Thanksgiving. Don’t probability it. We don’t even let my aunt Marvell (our designated sweet-potato-pie-maker) within the room with Aunt Phyllis. Though they stay actually down the road from one another, they’ll solely speak by cellphone. Till I confirmed them how one can FaceTime—which was one of the vital troublesome issues I’ve ever performed; you attempt educating two 70-year-old black girls how one can use an iPhone. It’s like explaining satan magic—they hadn’t seen one another in 34 years. Hopefully, as soon as Tasha finishes her grasp’s in macaroni, Phyllis and Marvell can reunite.


Greens are a low-key dish with an necessary worth. The one factor you could find out about collards is that it issues who cleaned them greater than it issues who cooked them.

A Transient Phrase About Chitlins

I’m neither anti- nor pro-chitlins. I grew up in a no-chitlins household, so it’s not a part of my household custom, however I acknowledge that there are individuals who equate Thanksgiving with chitlins. There is just one factor I wish to say to bougie black individuals:

Cease chitlin shaming!

I’m from the Deep South and was surrounded by chitlin-eaters. They’re similar to you and me. They placed on their dingy overalls one leg at a time. In the event that they wish to spend hours rinsing dooky off pig intestines, who am I to evaluate? Perhaps it’s the black model of kissing canines within the mouth. Allow them to stay.

White Folks Shit

Whereas that is on no account a complete listing, there’s a essential factor Caucasians have to find out about Black Thanksgiving:

That is no time for white individuals shit.

I perceive that white persons are excited by attempting new issues like leaping off cliffs with kites strapped to their again and public masturbation, however Thanksgiving shouldn’t be the place for his or her gentrification efforts. On Tuesday, a involved good friend despatched me this:

As I knelt in prayer for him throughout his hour of want, I knew this needed to be a white particular person. And I’m not a type of individuals who assume that pineapples don’t go on pizza. It’s your pizza, do regardless of the fuck you need.

However there are occasions the place it is best to chorus out of your Caucasian shenanigans, and Black Thanksgiving is a type of instances. Don’t put raisins in your dressing. Nobody needs vegan pork chops or gluten-free cornbread at Thanksgiving. It is a time to maintain your whiteness in verify.

Different Dishes

That is on no account an entire menu. These are merely the staples of Black Thanksgiving. Discover that each one issues at Black Thanksgiving are do-it-yourself. When you deliver a store-bought dish to Black Thanksgiving you may as nicely deliver Louis C.Okay. as a result of it’s the identical factor: an inappropriately gross public show.

If you’re ever invited to Black Thanksgiving, now you realize what you’ll eat. This menu is as common as it’s black. And I’m not saying that white individuals can’t perceive this custom, as a result of white individuals have as a lot capability to infuse their tradition and love into their meals as black individuals …

However not fairly.


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